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  1. Jasmack1972

    Jasmack1972 Porn Star Banned!

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    In society we have sexual laws that reflect the general consensus of society, and as society changes so do these laws.

    But, if you could have any laws, regarding sexual conduct, what would yours be?

    I'll start:

    I would have it made legal that sex with any consenting individual, regardless of gender, sexuality, age, species, or other, would be perfectly legal, if you can reasonably show that they consented to, and understood, your sexual intentions.

    I would have it made legal to engage in public sexual conduct, be it nudity, masturbation, oral, and penetrative sex.

    I would have it made illegal to interfere with, in any way, through vocal means, or by action, in order to restrict the sexual desires and actions of consenting individuals.

    I would do away with laws that prevent the sexual enjoyment of any individual, apart from rape.

    I would have a mandatory life sentence for anyone forcing sexual conduct on any individual that is not consenting.

    I would make prostitution, and the solicitation of sexual acts, legal. I would make it a government run business, that provides a service to the public, for free, and anyone working as a prostitute, both male and female, would be paid a good wage. Regulation would be on the number of clients a prostitute can see in any one day, and pay would be by the hour, not client numbers.
     
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    1. Bend over pig
      I'd make law that incest is acceptable and practiced in every family
       
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      Make it legal, but not a law. Some parents are just too ugly: Mine were.
       
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  2. CFH3ll

    CFH3ll OMERTA'

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    Consenting is not the same as having the ability to make rash decisions. While some may argue that it isn't very likely that a teenager could make such decisions based on their knowledge and wisdom it can also be argued that nethier can a lot of adults.

    And we live in a society that doesn't think teenagers and preteens can make their own decisions...for the most part that's true...guess they never tried picking out their kids clothes...
     
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      Not if you're not fussy like me.
       
      Jack Mine, Aug 19, 2017
    3. amethyst10
      And @Jasmack1972 , how would this test determine if a child understands what they are consenting to and the ramifications of sex? Is it going to prevent a new generation of 13 year old parents? I believe that it is quite alright for parents to dictate to their children how it's going to be, or at least try to. Such a test might be a good idea for adults though. I've known lots of adults who had/have no business reproducing.
       
      amethyst10, Aug 21, 2017
    4. Jasmack1972
      I imagine the test would be a series of questions that would require more than a single word answer. And then a bank of well educated and intelligent psychiatrists would analyze those answers and come to a decision about the subject being allowed to have sex. The psychiatrists would only have the answers, not the subjects details, so they can be as unbiased as possible.

      And I agree with you about a lot of adults not having any business reproducing.
       
      Jasmack1972, Aug 21, 2017
    5. amethyst10
      The process sounds unwieldy and difficult, if not impossible to enforce. And I still don't believe that 13 year olds should be having sex, regardless of their level of maturity.
       
      amethyst10, Aug 22, 2017
    6. Jasmack1972
      No matter if you believe it should, or shouldn't, happen they are. I was 8 when I lost my virginity, was having sex with others my own age, and older, and the only thing I regret from my childhood, sexually speaking, is listening to adults when they told me it was wrong.

      But, it matters naught what we say on here, the law will not change, for the better, or the worse, just because of these conversations.
       
      Jasmack1972, Aug 22, 2017
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  3. obe

    obe a little pain and a lot of pleasure

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    any sort of sexual contact with minors should be illegal, where I come from we know how to deal with fucking pervs like that, and trust me its not very nice, let's just say when its finished they don't look at any age of woman again in that way,, most other things I'm ok with but not in public where kids could see it
     
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    1. Jasmack1972
      So your response to a crime is violence?
       
      Jasmack1972, Aug 20, 2017
    2. amethyst10
      In some cases I believe that violence is justified. An eye for an eye.....
       
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      If you have to put a justification onto an action then you already know that action is wrong. When we talk about morality we talk about well being, and in that context a moral person does not want to see the well being of others diminish, no matter what that person has done. If we see others being less than moral, then as a moral society we take away their freedoms within our society, not their well being.

      Don't get me wrong, if someone hurt any of my family, or friends, then I would be the least moral person, and I can own that, but when it happens to others that I don't know I will always choose the moral path because I am not emotionally invested in the victim when they are a stranger to me.
       
      Jasmack1972, Aug 21, 2017
    4. amethyst10
      When it happens to "others", someone knows them and is emotionally invested in them. I'm not suggesting a lynch mob.
       
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      In my book if someone molests or worse a child they get what they deserve, what do you think would happen to that person in prison if the other prisoners found out what they were in prison for,, trust me I've seen it and it wasn't pretty
       
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  4. notdescriptive

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    Ok with our existing sex laws in the USA, except:
    - Sex with any consenting adult is legal. That means any number of consenting adults. This might be legal now.
    - Marriage with any consenting adult is legal. That means any number of consenting adults.
    - All divorces are no-fault. You simply divide up what you have and go your separate ways. Children of divorce are financially supported by the mother's and the father's combined percent of income. Control of that money is by the person that supplies it. More needs to be done here. Fathers should be equal with mothers in the eyes of the law. Divorce laws should be standardized and not lawyer negotiated. No lawyers telling the woman - "Quit your job so you have no income and claim spousal abuse. You'll be able to do what you want with the child support money you get from him."
    - Prostitution is legal. It's run by private enterprise and regulated by law.
    - A standardized sex education curriculum is taught in all schools, public and private, to all students 14 and older when they request it. Completing that curriculum is a high school requirement to graduate.

    No sex, public or private, available to minors in any form. Please, protect children. Current laws concerning sex/minors/incest stay or are toughened.
     
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      I agree with everything you say except about divorce. In some divorces, fault can and should be placed upon just one party. My first marriage ended in divorce because my husband was abusive. I tried everything I could think of to make our marriage work, including giving him all of my college savings to start a business and all it got me was a lot of grief and a few scars.
       
      amethyst10, Aug 21, 2017
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      I understand your logic on divorce. My sympathy and empathy to you.

      Education on abuse, it's signs and methods, should be part of standardized sex education curriculum. Can you tell me if, in addition to physical injury is spousal abuse illegal? I've never understood people that want to personally abuse and control other people.

      In classes that I teach (on a totally different subject) a pertinent question to the student is: If you were put back in that same situation, would the 'accident' happen again? I'm hoping you can say that you will never be in another abusive relationship.
       
      notdescriptive, Sep 6, 2017
    3. amethyst10
      I'm not sure about the legalities of spousal abuse. I would assume that physical and sexual abuse is illegal. My divorce was uncontested so the abuse issue never really came up. I believe that some people, like my ex, just get off on controlling people. If they need to slap them around to maintain control, that seems to make it even more satisfying to them. Before my marriage I would've never dreamed that my husband would be abusive. Despite that error in judgement, I feel confident that I will never be in an abusive relationship again. I've been with three guys since that marriage and all three of them were/are absolute gentlemen, kind and protective. And in case you're wondering, of those three guys, the first one died, the second one left me because I wouldn't marry him, and I'm still with the third.
       
      amethyst10, Sep 7, 2017
    4. notdescriptive
      Congratulations! Sounds like you know what you're doing - and where you have been.
      Besides being abusive, those types seem to hide it until they can use it. So sorry for your experience.
      That third guy you are with, the one you're with now, he is the fortunate one.
      Best wishes to you and your's.
       
      notdescriptive, Sep 7, 2017
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  5. seafoam1

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    Prostitution should be legal but regulated to protect all parties as much as possible from disease, violence and extortion.

    Consenting adults should be able to engage in sexual activity with other consenting adults.

    Agree with no fault divorce.

    Agree with Sexual education, both on topics of biology as well as sexual mores, with attempting to teach that sex is natural and shouldn't be a source of shame. Body image and self perception should be covered, as well as mastubation and abstinence.
    A total sexual education, mind and body.

    Age of consent is a slippery slope, there are many young teens having sex with each other and with older people. Some are ready for it and able to handle it and some are not. It is also far to easy for an older person to prey upon a younger one.
    This is a topic that could be discussed once everyone is better educated on the topic.

    Severe penalties for Rape.

    There also needs to be some common sense applied, which means none of this will ever happen
     
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  6. CFH3ll

    CFH3ll OMERTA'

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    Instead of sixteen and pregnant how about sixteen and working on a scholarship...just doesn't have the same ring does it?
     
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      How about a show about young heroes? And I don't mean the kids who just helped granny across the street six times. I'm talking about a show where kids do things that would be extraordinary even by adult standards.
       
      Jasmack1972, Aug 20, 2017
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  7. VenusInFurze

    VenusInFurze Online Odalisque

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    I'm pretty much ok with anything involving live consenting adult human beings.
     
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    1. seafoam1
      I saw what you did there,
      live+consenting+adult+human, LOL.
       
      seafoam1, Aug 18, 2017
    2. Jasmack1972
      As apposed to dead, non-consenting, young, non-human, beings. That means my jar of chopped lambs liver is a no go for you. Hehehe.
       
      Jasmack1972, Aug 20, 2017
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      I am not apposed to dead adault humam beings, but would they still have to be consenting?
       
      1 Toy Maker, Aug 21, 2017
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  8. walt2000

    walt2000 Sex Lover

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    if you believe in God, then apply God's law, no sex before marriage. And if you don't believe in God, then you can apply yours.
     
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    1. RCummings
      Bullshit
       
      RCummings, Aug 18, 2017
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    2. Jasmack1972
      I don't believe in god, so my laws stand.
       
      Jasmack1972, Aug 19, 2017
    3. RCummings
      still bullshit
       
      RCummings, Aug 19, 2017
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  9. do-me

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    So you think it's okay to fuck your neighbor's cat, or a child. And it's okay for you to jack off on the playground while a kindergarten class watches. I'm glad you don't make the laws. I can't fully agree with any of yours except the one about life sentences for forced sex. I think anything between consenting adults that does not infringe on the rights of others should be legal. Seeing someone engaged in sexual activities would be an infringement of many peoples rights.
     
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    1. Jasmack1972
      One person's disdain for another person's actions does not necessitate that it is made illegal. You have to look at the harm an action does before it can be made, in all good conscience, illegal. And the harm has to be real and evident, not imagined because someone doesn't like it.
       
      Jasmack1972, Aug 20, 2017
    2. amethyst10
      I believe that sex/nudity in front of children and people who have no desire to see such things does do real harm and should therefore be illegal. It's illegal now, and for good reason. I enjoy fooling around in public but I am very careful of who might see me and my activities are subtle enough that they could be ignored if someone finds them offensive. That doesn't excuse what I do though.
       
      amethyst10, Aug 21, 2017
    3. Jasmack1972
      Now you are equating nudity with sex. And, though I think our actions should be tempered as far as inciting others to do harm, or actually doing harm ourselves, I do not think that all claims of harm are truthful. Nudity is nothing to hide from others, especially children, as there is nothing wrong with the human form. Sex, also should not be something to be kept behind locked doors. The harm comes from telling others that something as natural as sex is rude and naughty. If we get rid of this ridiculous notion then seeing others enjoying sex does no actual harm; to anyone.
       
      Jasmack1972, Aug 21, 2017
    4. amethyst10
      I disagree. I think we can leave it at that.
       
      amethyst10, Aug 22, 2017
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  10. Tim_biguy

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    I'm good with making all sexual relations between consenting adults legal (including incest, but not pedophilia)
    Polyamorous marriages legal.
    Prostitution legal.

    That's the important bits to me :)
     
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  11. Milo Cronos

    Milo Cronos The Sexual Intellectual

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    1. A worldwide legal age of 18 for consent despite who you choose to have sex with under the conditions of mutual consent
    2. A comprehensive age appropriate and progressive sexual education system that emphasizes a wide rational view of all things sexual, not encouraging the behaviors just an understanding of the basic facts. Add it be elective for adults and mandatory for parents!
    3. Chemical castration for convicted pedophiles and rapists with the psychological support
    4. Legalized prostitution to reduce the criminal element over time and legitimize the world's oldest profession!
    5. Preteen education on the reckless endangerment to themselves, society and the children born out of pregnancy before maturity without the stable base of a marriage or marriage like commitment!
     
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      1. Why 18? Why not 21, or 16? Maybe make it law that puberty has to have completed before its legal to have sex. I don't understand this arbitrary rule about a number.
      2. Maybe just teach everything that is true about the act of intercourse.
      3. Make up your mind: Harm them or help them. Doing both sends mixed messages.
      4. Agree on this one.
      5. Fully disagree with this one. If people don't want to get married this would mean that you force them into a contract they don't want, or you deny them sexual enjoyment.
       
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  12. thinskin

    thinskin Porn Star Banned!

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    Those of us who have suffered a non-consensual act understand the significance of consent so I am pretty much with Venus on this one!

    Thinskin
     
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  13. kennhavoc

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    Underaged individuals are morally and legally off limits, and if you think otherwise, I got a present for you. It's about 124gs and moves at about 1100fps.

    Age isn't JUST a number. The brain doesn't fully comprehend certain things till after a certain age, maturity develops with age. Teenagers and even young adults still don't have the mental capacity(even older adults in most cases as well considering your post)

    If it's a consenting, living, non biological human being. That's fine.
     
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  14. Jonme

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    I can agree with 2 > 5
    But why 1? Why should the age of 18 be applied worldwide? Many nationalities are more sexually educated and sexually open than the US - in the age of consent, the age of marriage; even to the acceptance of nudity.
    The USA must literally be the most 'fucked-up' country in the world where all things sexual are concerned - even different states cannot agree what is legal concerning most things sexual: when they can do that then maybe, and only maybe, can anybody from the USA start talking about "worldwide".
     
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  15. arturo69

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    The age of consent here in the UK is 16, drinking is 18 and it works OK generally. Prostitution is not illegal, controlling prostitutes is, so working girls are not arrested unless they cause problems. Massage parlours have a blind eye turned towards them, again until there is a problem.
     
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  16. Bron Zeage

    Bron Zeage I am a river to my people

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    My basic sexual law is, what goes up, must come down.
     
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  17. Milo Cronos

    Milo Cronos The Sexual Intellectual

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    Well I'm from the great U.S.A. and I'm much more openly sexually minded from academics to amusement which I attest to personal choice! Though I'm deemed strange or perverted in the mixed company of the P.C. police, religious zealots and the indoctrinated masses of victims rather then witness to an open sexual society! America is coming out of and entering into a great repression of freedom of speech and thought police which has confusing messages about sexual responsibility and ideological viewpoints on identity?

    18 worldwide because it removes the accepted practice of prostitution and exploitation of minor children worldwide! What an adult does with their body is not my concern, what a child can be obligated to do for his/her family to foreign entities is SICK! I don'tcare who you are ......................
     
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  18. RetiredOF

    RetiredOF Porno Junky

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    What about a 15 year old girl and a 15 year old male that decides as a pair to have sex? Should that be legal? Happens after high school football game. Adults that have sex with a minor should be first in line for execution. "Well she or he said it was ok " is not a defense. Hooking should be legal as same sex, sex with dogs, sex with furniture all legal. If you get money for fucking then the government gets their cut off the top. National set age of consent for all U.S.A. France has no prohibition of incest. Public nudity and drug laws are loose for a better word.
     
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  19. Jonme

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    Putting age limits on anything, whilst in some/many things being desirable, particularly sexual, is in actuality pointless - because there is no possible way of totally enforcing it, no matter where in the world and that includes 'the great U.S.A'.
    Most countries where there is prostitution and exploitation of minors, where it is certainly is not the "accepted practice", already have laws against such practices, with some punishments for both parties involved much stricter than those in the U.S., some having the death penalty.
    No family is 'obligated' to prostitute their child, but may be driven to it by 'poverty and need' and the SICKNESS lies with those that make use of such children, make a child a 'thing in demand', and many countries have laws against their national doing so, prosecuting them for offences carried out against children in other countries.
    One suggestion I would make, to possibly help stop paedophiles travelling to other countries to follow their sick practices, is that known offenders should have their passports marked as such, which could bar them from entry into some counties.
     
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      Sometimes limits are necessary and sometimes age is the only practical way of setting a limit. There is no possible way of totally enforcing any law.
       
      amethyst10, Aug 21, 2017
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